Sunday, May 11, 2008

Happy Mother's Day Mom


This is my mom... Okay, one sentence and I'm already teary-eyed.


Of course I didn't realize it as a kid but now as an adult, and especially as mother, I look back on my childhood and I am so grateful for my mothers wisdom.


Just a few of the lessons I am most grateful for:


- My mom often would share "spiritual experiences" or prompting she would receive with us when we were just kids. I remember many times growing up my mom would tell me about how she was at the store, or in the car, or cleaning the house, and the spirit prompted her about something. I remember thinking that my mom must have been really special for the Lord to talk to her so much. As I've grown I've found that it is easier for me to recognize the Lord's hand in my life because of my mothers example. I learned from her at a very young age that He is very much a part of our everyday life. What peace and purpose that brings to me today.

- I remember as a teenager I would hear adults talking about how hard it was to talk to their teenagers and how they were always fighting with them and I just didn't understand it. My mom and I got along great during my teenage years. I felt like I could talk to her and I was excited to tell her about my dates and other "teenager stuff". I think about that now and wonder how she did that!
I just hope my kids feel the same way with me when they at are going through their pivotal teenage years.

- My mom taught me by example about humility. I can't tell you how many times I would walk past my mother's room and find her on her knees in prayer. It also wasn't uncommon when we had a disagreement to find my mother a few minutes later sitting on the end of my bed and apologizing for what she had said. It was good for me to see that she wasn't perfect- and just like me- made mistakes but was trying to do better.

- My mom made our home a safe haven from the world. There was peace and love in our home and as a teenager my friends were drawn to our home. It's like they felt it too. I hope that I can create that kind of a home with my children where they will long for the comfort and the peace of home.

Trevor has mentioned several times since we've moved away how he misses being in my parents home. That good feeling is still there.


I could go on and on...


I wish I could be there with you today mom but since I can't I just want you to know how much I love you and how grateful I am for the woman you are. I just hope and pray that I can be the kind of mother to my kids that you were and still are to me. I'm so blessed to call you my mother.


HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!

3 comments:

Jeanne Bee said...

Kathryn,
I really appreciate your words and sentiment,thank you. When all is said and done you often wonder what influence you really had. I have watched you as a mother and you are much better than I was. I'm greatful for that. "Trevor and you work together when it comes to the spirituality of your home and that is a real blessing. Your children are wonderful - you do good every day. Have a happy Mothers Day!! Keep up the good work. Love you all Mom

Aprilyn said...

I don't know your Mom but she sounds wonderful. I'm glad you have such a wonderful example.

Melissa said...

Can I Please just say ditto ditto ditto!! Kathryn is much better with word than I ever have been but we really do have just the best mom!!!
I hope someday I can be half the mother that you both are!!
I love you guys!
Melissa